I'm not Preaching, Just Thinking

I was reading in the bible today in Proverbs. It was eye opening, well not really it was more like... eye remembering. (I have a lot of those moments.) But as I was reading I started to realize that no guy is ever going to want a girl who is always angry with him because she believes he's being slow or not handling a problem right. No guy is ever going to want a girl who is inpatient and gets into messes because her expectations aren't being met. No!!!! A guy is going to want a girl who loves the Lord with all her heart and will want to please not only him but also God. Another verse that really stuck out to me was Tts 2:4-5

That they may teach the young women to be sober,
to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good,
obedient to their own husbands,
that the word of God be not blasphemed.

One day, you will find a guy and settle down and even if you don't believe this right now what you do with your time is training you for the future. Every habit you build will stick with you in the future...soo why start bad habits of chasing millions of guys until we find the right one. In this world they move from one crush to the next. "Ohh, that one didn't work out. Lets try a new one."

Noooo!!! Just wait, wait and build good habits you're future husband would be proud of. Stay out of trouble. Stay out of relationships. Just Wait. Like Tts 2:4-5 says, Us women should be sober, loving to our husband. Even though we don't have one right now doesn't mean we can't be loving or obedient. Would he be proud if I or you were with another man right now? Would You be happy if he was with another women right now? NO! of course you wouldn't. So why cause hurt where hurt doesn't need to be caused?

I'm honestly not writing all this to preach. Mostly I'm writing it because I need to do a better job at this. This little blog journal is so that my thoughts can be organized. I just thought that you might like to read also what I've been learning. :)

Soo my advice to myself and also to you if you want it. :P Is get out in the world and don't wait around for some guy to save you... Wait for him but that doesn't mean sit in a chair waiting patiently. Start moving. Do things for the Lord, Start learning, build good habits. Help out in the world and sooner or later some great guy will notice you for the amazing person you are. (Or at least I would hope! If he doesn't, I'll knock some sense into him.) Learn to be everything Tts 2:4-5 says. Because I can promise you it will pay off in the future. And know you aren't alone in learning, waiting, and working on good habits. I'm walking the path right along side of you.